Saturday, July 7, 2012

Relationship Reflection

Relationship with families, friends, teachers and community is very important to me  it help the child to develop a positive attitude in a good atmosphere.  In my life I have several people who are very important to me that help me through my life's of ups and down who gave me a positive way to think and never had a negative communication with them.

The first one I would like to talk about is my godmother who I call mom who has been there to support me in whatever I did in my life that was positive. She gave me advice about my lifestyle and how to care about myself on how to be the best woman I could be.  My godmother shown me love, she gave me hugs when I needed them. She treated me as if I was her real daughter even though she has a daughter she did not treat me any different. I did not know how to say I love you because my mother did not tell me or my sibling that she loved us. My godmother would tell me every day that she love me by her telling me and showing me that she did I started tell her back that I love her and I felt it when I hug my godmother. I can always talk to her no matter what she was doing she always have a listening ear. We have spent time together, we have went out of town together, and whenever she needed me I have been there to help her. The attachment is still working in my life today and I do not think I would have been what I am today without my godmother and God.



The next person I would like to talk about is my godsister Michelle, a wonderful person to be with she has been in my life for over thirty years.  We have been there for each other through our struggles in life. Our children has growing up together and spending time together. My godsister have been a sister to me more than my own sister have. She has let me stay with her and help take care of her children for her when she had to work.  When I needed her she was there to care, support me, give me advice on situation in my life.  She share her mother with me who is my godmother. She shown me that she care when I felt no one care about me she could have said no you can not stay with me, no I do not want you around but she did not. She treated me like a sister. We always had a good communication even when we got upset with each other we was always there for each other. After spending time with my godsister she shown me how to care for people even when they do you wrong do not put yourself first think about the other person when I did not want too. I appreciate her for being that sister that I needed her to be. My sister is disable and could not do what I needed a sister to do and be. My sister could not drive, she could not go out to places unless she had help and I could not do it because she was paralyze on one side. At that point in my life I needed a sister who understood me, who would take time out to spend with me, and tell me what I needed to know as a young adult. I did not need anyone to be negative in my life at that time in my life it was a struggle for me being a teenager and not getting the support I needed as a teenager. There were  no love from family members and my godsister was there to fill that whole in my life and she is still there for me today. She was the only one out of my family that could come to my graduation for my Bachelor Degree from college and I was proud to have her there with me along with her children and grandchildren. She is special to me and I love her for who she is in my life.





The last people I would like to talk about is my Pastor, and  Fist Lady, at my church these two people are wonderful people of God. My pastor have shown me love and support, he has taught me they way of living right. He has taught me how a christian should live for God and not for people. This man remind me of my father who was also a pastor he care for people and their lives. He would tell you the truth no matter what people feel about him he is going to tell you what the Word of God said. He loves children and people I think children are very special to him.  I have watch him when he is around children how is face lights up with a smile. He give out greetings and hugs and you can feel the love from him.  I am grateful to have him as a pastor he helps who he can and do not complain about it and do not look for anything in return.  My First lady this woman is someone that has been an encourager to me she is always positive and let me know I can be what I want to be if I put my mind to it and pray and ask God to direct you in the right way. She was a praying person whenever you talk to her she is praying for God to give her the right words to say.  She was a woman that care about people and children. She did not have no respect of person she did not care what color or culture you were she care and love the person for who they were.  She taught me to love people also regardless on how they treat me because God will reward me for my love and kindness toward people. She told me to show kindness toward people because the Lord said that you love one another as I have love you. My First Lady always gave hugs to everyone and mints at the door when dismissal was at church she greeting everyone with a smile, hug and a kiss on both checks. She has now pass away but her time she spent with me will be cherish in my heart. She always told us in church to raise our hand and she would say your are special and if you did not raise your hand she would still say your are special she would be miss.








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